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Carolina Beach State Park Engagement Shoot:
Ashley was referred to me by a previous client. And nothing is a better compliment as a photographer to have people actually refer you to their friends. It’s definitely a wonderful feeling! Ashley and I had corresponded for what felt like a year, and finally had the chance to do our engagement shoot. The shoot was planned for the summer but because of a move and also some other life obstacles, we planned for October. And I am so happy that we were able to do a fall shoot.
Nothing is better than not sweating with your clients, let me tell ya! And also, nothing is more pretty than the fall colors on tree’s and spending time in the crisp air that fall provides. A fall engagement session also allows for layering, and just fun props that can be used to tell a story. Just like my engagement session with Andrew and Ashley. They arrived with a basket of quilts, thermoses and mugs.
Ashely and Andrew wanted something forest feeling but classic all in the same way. So, with that said we figured out the Carolina Beach State Park would be a great fit.
Andrew lead Ashley through our forest trail, and it was nothing but super magical with the light creeping through the cracks of the trees. We continued to wander through the woods to give the light a chance to dim down a bit on the other side of the park. Andrew laid the quilt out for Ashley and they had a little picnic away from it all..
It was really sweet to see Ashley reassure Andrew how handsome he is, and how cute and trusting these two are with one another. They are adorably cute together, and I love how Ashley calls Andrew “lamb”.. (Yes, really, so sweet right =) )
Engagement sessions are one of my favorite styles of photography because of my ability to share in the love of my clients for one another. And these two did not disappoint. Andrew looks at Ashely likes she literally has fallen from heaven and he’s seeing her for the first time.
Our second half of the afternoon was literally like we step into the west coast. The rocky terrain and the marina just screamed Pacific Northwest and it’s always so nice to create a scene or a feel that isn’t even native to your area. The fact that Ashley and Andrew are quite fashionable definitely did not hurt our session 🙂 It was like I was photographing a JCREW ad. I loved their wardrobe choices, and their colors were spot on! Everything was absolutely perfect!
** Congrats you too! I can’t wait to share in your wedding day, and so happy we got a chance to meet and share in such a fun afternoon together! You guys are the sweetest and so excited for more fun times ahead 🙂 **
Jessica and Matt’s love story began in 2013…
Jess and Matt agreed to do a sunrise shoot and of course I did a happy dance! As I have mentioned in previous post, I LOVE sunrise sessions. The light never disappoints, and in most cases our locations feel like they were created just for us.
We started our session in Fort Fisher and the sun slowly crept through the clouds. That morning we were experiencing a bit of rain, so I was glad to have the rain stop so we could start our shooting. Fort Fisher is an area that never disappoints with nature providing such beautiful colors to capture.
Jessica and Matt were nothing but amazing to photograph. When two people are so comfortable around one another it truly shows through print. It not only made my experience truly wonderful, but I hope shows in the images.
As we progressed in our shoot they became more loose and more comfortable around me and the product was amazing. Matt is sweet, and such a gentlemen. Whenever Matt would look at Jessica she would literally light up and could never hide her smiling around him. They were gitty and cute, and had such an innocent dynamic around one another.
I loved how pure and romantic, and endearing their relationship is.
Once we finished in Fort Fisher, we headed off to the Fort Fisher beach area. Their was a significant location here that provided the start of this new journey. Matt proposed to Jessica at the gazebo area near the cove so photographing near/around this area was such an awesome thing.
During the planning stages of the engagement shoot, we decided to run with the idea of a beach day with Jessica and Matt. This meant bright colors, and lots and lots of fun moments. So with that said, I incorporated beach balls, beach tubes, and had them bring a towel. I felt like this theme would help capitalize on their personalities and show how their environment is very similar to their own qualities.
Because the day was cloudy we had different tones and moods in the shoot and definitely capitalized from it. It sometimes felt like we were shooting in the west coast. The light was magical.
One of my favorite moments were when we finally braved the currents in the ocean. Matt, was such a trooper trekking Jessica through the water. We definitely giggled a bunch and experienced tons of wipe outs. The water was extremely active and I am so glad we got to capture such genuine moments.
I cannot wait for their wedding in May! I am so grateful for our meeting, and so grateful for sharing this experience. I literally felt as I was shooting good friends. I had a wonderful morning and can’t thank them enough for such a bright, and colorful shoot.
Congrats on your recent engagement! Now what are you supposed to do?
Most newly engaged couples aren’t experts of the wedding industry. Unless you were that little girl that had a wedding scrapbook, your knowledge about the wedding industry is probably limited to the one’s you’ve attended and the one’s you’ve seen in a magazine. It can be a little daunting and stressful, but it doesn’t have to be.
Here are a few tips that I have learned over the years with past, and present brides!
- Be organized. With that said, start off with a plan. Choose a time out of the year you are considering to have your big ceremony. I only say choose a “time” because your date may be filled at the venue you want, or your vendor that you may want to use already may have a date. So be open to dates in the month, or months you want to get married in. (If your flexible, than hey go for the stars and stick to your date.)
- Choose a theme. This makes life so much easier once you and your groom have figured out the locations that you favor. For example when choosing a venue space, consider these details. Will you have a lot of guest or a small intimate gathering? Do you want your ceremony, and reception to be in the same spot? Where will you get ready? Are you and your groom getting ready in the same spot? Is this an option? If not, how far are the facilities from one another? Do you want to dance under the stars, or would you rather twirl around a ballroom? Do you want your guest to serve themselves, or would you rather a wait staff to hand out their food? After you’ve considered all those aspects you may find it easier to figure out where exactly you do want all the magic to happen. You may find your an urban lover, and would rather have a venue in a rustic brick atmosphere. Or, you love flowers, and being in nature. Dancing in the stars is part of your love language which means your dream wedding is probably a garden wedding. You may even realize, you want a destination wedding? You don’t want the hassle of a huge guest list, and want something more intimate. There are plenty of destinations that can fit anyone’s budget. And traveling with family, or a small group may be your favorite past time. So, if you see your wedding day with 50 or less people. This may be your best option to have a wedding & honeymoon with your closes family and friends. Ultimately, any answer you and your significant other come up with will be right.
- You’ve figured out a theme, and perhaps what style of wedding you want, don’t leave out the details of location. Think about how far you will be from one place to another. Where will your groom be when your getting ready? Also, what does the place you are getting ready look like? This will be more important for a photography aspect. Light is key in taking good images with that said, a beautifully lit room versus the basement of a church, or a conference room may not lend the same type of feel that a room that is open and filled with light from huge windows. Also think space.. If you want to see shoes, dresses, makeup bags, and beds everywhere in your images, than a hotel room will be alright. But if you want things to feel more open, organized, and less clutter, think a home or a studio space that allows you to have this. Ultimately all your details will depict how your day is shown or remembered.
- Wedding parties? How many? Who do you choose? Do I need a wedding party? The answer is no, you don’t need a wedding party. You can have however many people you want. Yes, it can be an unbalanced amount on each side. And yes, you don’t need all your relatives to stand beside you. Don’t let the madness cloud the importance of the day. After all it’s about only two people. So, if your standing at the alter and facing the person you love, I’d say your wedding party is complete. Try not to complicate it, make it simple. You know what you want, and it’s your day. Don’t include people because you feel forced.
- Elect a friend to help! If you don’t have a wedding planner, elect a friend to help. This person can help with scheduling, and speaking with vendors on the day of. You may call this person, the maid of honor, or the best man. Or, perhaps it’s your mom, or dad. Don’t be afraid to delegate responsibilities on the wedding day. Your objective is to be present on your wedding day. You will need someone to communicate with guest, and vendors about placements, attendance and scheduling. Your day will run more smoothly if you have a timeline/ and schedule. Don’t worry about creating a schedule.
- Create a timeline with your vendors! This is one of the most important steps in planning an effectively stress-free wedding! It may take some tweaking and some back and forth emails, but the end result will be most definitely worth it. Either your helper or your wedding coordinator will help execute this timeline. Your photographer will more than likely present a timeline for their part. This will explain how long things take, and where and what you will be doing. And it will also include participants and a wedding shot list if that’s something you’ve discussed. Other vendors such as florist, dj’s, & the venues you are using will more than likely present a timeline that will correspond to their specialties on your wedding day.
- Choose a dress at least 4 months before the actual wedding day. When you are shopping for a dress think about your options. You can buy brand new, or you can even open your horizons up by looking for a resale boutique (antique, consignment), or borrowing a family heirloom.
- You got your wedding attire, now what? How do you want the flow of your wedding day to be? If you don’t like a bouquet toss, don’t do it. If you think the garter toss is weird, don’t do it. You love the electric slide, and every other group dance they play at weddings, tell your DJ I LOVE those.. Create the day to your likings. Make traditions into new traditions, or keep the old ones for familiarity. Again, it’s your day there isn’t a wrong answer.
- Presents! Registry? There is tons of different registry options some are below, you can register at your local department stores. Such as Target, Bloomingdales, Macys, Belk, Dillards, Saks, Bed bath and Beyond.. or you can register with travel companies for honeymoon funds. Some companies I know of; https://www.honeyfund.com/ , http://www.hatchmyhouse.com/howitworks (a registry for first time home owners) , http://www.downpaymentdreams.com/ . There is even a registry that will give back for you! How great to have your wedding start off with such a wonderful purpose. Who doesn’t like to do nice things and while shopping! https://www.theknot.com/registry/charity
- Stick to your budget. Whether it’s 50K or $500.. You don’t want to start this new life with debt. Be realistic of your goals for your future, and don’t let a huge party with strangers cloud your judgement. Yes, have a great time! Yes, create the dream to your storybook romance. But, don’t get too crazy where you can’t afford your next month’s car payment once the fantasy has worn off. If you aren’t paying for all of it, think of who is. Don’t let your dreams cloud the consequences of their budget. You have the rest of your life with your special someone. Money issues are the leading cause in divorce. Don’t let yourself get into a mess before your new life starts.
There are probably other guidelines or tips that you may even discover through your wedding planning. I am sure I only touched a small bit of all the endless opportunities you can have on your wedding day. The goal of sharing these tips was to get your wheels turning. It doesn’t have to be a stressful venture if you are organized and know what you want. When you start to let friends, or families opinions get in the way that’s when things start to get sticky. Always remember the real reason of the day. Its the union of you and you lovey. It’s the day that will solidify a new life that is being created. A partnership for eternity. So treat it to be sacred and every other detail will literally just fall into place.
-Cheers to being engaged! <3